If you want something different - You need to be different.
I can't tell you how many times I have heard this.
I can tell you there is a lot of folks out there talking about limited beliefs and have totally missed the mark.
Here's the truth:
If you do not have the life you want. You have a block.
- That amazing relationship.
- A clear direction in life that lights you up.
- That kickass body
- That glowing skin form inside out
- Financial freedom
- That successful business you know is meant for you.
If you want something - If you have wanted something for so long, so badly, it is because it is divinely assigned to you for a deeper reason you may not understand yet. Not everyone has your specific dream - you do. For a reason.
That door you want to open so bad, opens when you are the version of you who is ready for it - and not before.
Read that again.
If it hasn't opened yet, there is still work to do.
The questions is, how much do you really want it?
Let me tell you a story:
When I first started my large group coaching program I met with everyone one-on-one to set them up for the program by helping them understand what they need to focus on letting go of to really change their life.
I gave everyone a form to fill out and one of the questions was: "Tell me your limited beliefs?
One thing that struck me from meeting with everyone in the group was that not one of them got their limited beliefs, correct.
Seriously.
What I realize is, is that a lot of us are stuck on the surface level “limited beliefs “we think we have. And after having an opportunity to dig down into the theme of all of the surface level limited beliefs, we got to the core of what was really happening.
Let me give you one example:
Stephanie came to me and said "I'm a perfectionist, I have fear around not wanting to appear flawed or different."
Well, this is a common one many people suffer from. But this is not her limited belief. The questions to ask yourself here is why? Why are you a perfectionist?
Now we're talkin, Let's put on the gloves and boots because you are about to dig a big hole!
Keep asking yourself why until you get to the bottom. If you get there, great!
But here is the thing. We call it a block for a reason. Because we are "blocked" from seeing the real reason.
Now my intake form is intensive, I'm also on the outside of Stephanie's head, and I have a lot of experience with helping people with this. Not to mention, I am a master puzzle solver -being a professional engineer for over 15 years and studying psychology for 10!
This is exactly why you get a coach. They see things in 20 seconds you can not see at all.
We got to the bottom of Stephanie's specific limited belief which had more to do with self love (of course) but specifically she had a narrative from childhood that she was a burden because she was the oldest child and the sick one. She took up a lot of energy from her parents. She decided at a young age that she would be the best at everything and turned into the athlete and good student just so she wouldn't burden anyone. Well, guess what. This showed up in her relationships all her life, having no boundaries, people pleasing, low self worth, calling in partners who also gave her the same respect she gave herself. Burnout, loss, pain, resentment, confusion.
Stephanie's deep want was that amazing relationship. But she won't get it until she drops this believe. Sure, she may find a relationship, but how these things work is they just keep reflecting that same lesson you need to learn. Once you do, you step up and get something magical the next time around.
Thinking you are "just a perfectionist" doesn't cut it and doesn't give you the path out.
Even with this profound realization for Stephanie, we were just getting started.
Stephanie later reflected to me that she felt like I came in like a jedi master with my light saber taking down all the "bull shit" and getting right to the problem, and let her see it. It wasn't easy, but she was ready and strong enough to do the work with me.
You have accomplished goals
You work hard – You’ve done a lot of work on yourself and made a lot of progress
But your life still looks the same and you are done being stuck
You know deep down you were meant to have more, be more, have fun. Yes fun!
You deserve all the good things you truly want.
You just need to let a few things go to get them.
I hear you. I got you.
My teacher would say. "Face, Fight, Finish."
Let's do this together.
My Superpower
I see what is holding you back and make it clear to you. I show it to you and give you the tools and autonomy to get through it – on the sidelines, cheering you on and ready to support.
I will help you close the gap between who you are today (with all the pain points, blocks and tripping hazards) to where you know you can be. Fast. As fast as you are ready and open for.
I will get you standing strong as that person ready to open all the doors that are meant for you.
This is what I offer
- Presence. Feeling seen and heard
- Deep listening & interpretation
- The big holistic picture (physical, mental, emotional, energetic and spiritual connections)
- Resonance with what you are feeling and illumination of questions to ask yourself.
- Laser beam precision on what is blocking you, cut to the chase, raw truth.
- Reassurance that you can work with it.
- Sooo much love.
- Solution forward and support on your journey
| Real Results |
My one on one session was explosive and energy-driven.
I was guided to go deeply to the source of my blockages and identify them immediately! I felt supported, invigorated, confident and motivated to take charge of changing my life! ( I also was pleased that the session really challenged me to do this work! And I kind of like challenges!! It wasn’t easy, however, I know the sessions have changed the frame from which I view my life!) A deep gaze into the looking glass to see my own soul and shine it up!!!" ~Donna C
Natasha summarized where I am and what I am feeling in a more articulate way than I can myself,
providing insight on why and reassured me that it is totally ok and understandable why I am where I am. She dug into connections from my parents’ relationship that I didn’t see I was taking on or letting happen in my life. Over time we weaved in the physical, mental, emotional and spiritual connections. Each session I could see more and more things that were holding me back all related to one root issue, but I saw them as so many disconnected pieces. I tend towards too many options and have anxiety, or no options, like it’s never going to get better, and there is nothing I can do – it’s hopeless. She convinced me that it's ok, things do not need to be that way, there is a solution; we figure it out together, and it has elevated me. I have experienced so much growth working with her. " ~Mark B.
The Experience of Investing in Yourself
Virtual - 60-90 min. $160 CAD + tax (~115 USD | 100 €)
Subsequent sessions $300 CAD + tax (~220 USD | 185 €)
Custom Packages Available. This could look like weekly or by-weekly sessions | full access to me via WhatsApp. We would discuss what is the best process for you.
What happens when you let it go
- Elevate into a new version of yourself
- Make different decisions and start seeing the outcome you want
- Hold boundaries, communicated them, enforce them unwaveringly
- Talk, Think and Act differently
- People around you notice but you think "damn, I always thought that way" - Its like it disappeared. That's when you roasted it, that's what we are after.
Still Have Questions..
I'm happy you do! Let's chat: book a free 15 min video call with me and see if we would make a good fit. Alternatively, send me an email to get the ball rolling. Looking forward to hearing from you!
Ready to take that Step..
With so much love and support.
Know, you can have "More from Life".
